Friday, July 2, 2010

Coming to nursing

I'm a rotating-shift worker. She works day shift. K and I live about 25 minutes apart. With the schedules we have, it doesn't allow for us to see each other nearly as often as either would like. We do sleep together as often as possible, sometimes at my house, more often at hers. Though sleeping together when possible, this is not intended to be a euphemism for sexual activity. Lovemaking happens often, but not every time we sleep with each other. Almost without fail though, our time together will include nursing. I love nursing at her breasts.

Ever since I have been old enough to really be interested in girls, I have been preoccupied with breasts as my major criteria for attraction to any female interest. The older I have gotten, the more I have come to the realization that a lady's breast is of utmost importance to me. Through 27 years of marriages (2) and companionship, I have also realized a deep desire to nurse at my lady's breasts. It has not been realized in my life to my liking, until now. In recent years I have also been realizing another desire: the want for receiving milk at her breasts. Until recently, that was a subject I did not brooch. Now I have K. She is a wonderful lady, quite remarkable.

We have developed a wonderful relationship. Being honest open with each other is a huge part of that. I would enjoy her breasts as often as possible, and she enjoyed it as much as I. We came to calling this nursing and liked the feeling that the terminology mustered. At times I would cuddle up with K and eventually move to her breasts to nurse. At other times she would initiate the nursing by moving me there herself. What I am saying is that the desire for this experience is mutual. Now, for the past couple of months, we have moved into the subject of nursing accompanied with lactation. I did not know how K would receive this idea when I gently suggested that sometimes I imagine getting milk from her breasts while nursing. She immediately voiced interest too. From there we have had many open and honest discussions about nursing and giving me milk. The result at this time is that, we are both strongly interested in K giving milk! It is a wonderful thing to us. She is not giving milk yet. We have a lot to learn and probably a lot to do in order to bring K to lactation. It is a journey we are both eager to be on with anticipation of an added wonderful aspect to our loving relationship.

I'm am very much ready for her milk, craving that interaction. I love this lady!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

First of all

This is my first post, obviously. I intend this blog to mostly be about adult nursing relationships and mild male chastity play. Of course, it may meander from these main topics, but I will try to keep my discussions centered on the stated topics.

Adult Nursing Relationships (ANR): it is becoming a large part of my relationship with my girlfriend (called herein "K"). This is not necessarily an erotic side of our relationship, though the warm tender feelings sometimes leads to lovemaking. ANR is new to us, however I have desired it for many years.

The male chastity is of very mild nature. There are plenty of other forums on the internet with a slant toward the extreme. Discussion of those more extreme points of view will not be the main source of topics. Purpose of our male chastity play is simply to ensure that all my orgasms are with her. This is not in concern about infidelity. For us, it is merely a loving and playful way to say, "I want all your orgasms to be with me, and not even with solo masturbation." It is not seen as a way for K to try to control me or punish me. K does not try to use it as a means to deny me love making. Rather, she is usually eager to get the chastity device off of me when anytime there is the possibility for love making. It is a fun and exciting thing we share.

Now you have a short description of what this blog will be about. I hope you enjoy reading.